Black Beauty Diaries

Monday, May 31, 2010

Man Is He Confused?...

Well, for many of us women we go through a phase with a man whom you've been dealing with for a very long time. Two and three years and still no real commitment, and your wondering what's the hold up with this guy? You go back and forth in this type of relationship, you have fights then make up which adds the edge on giving you the illusion this could be real. And so you still have that little piece of hope that this could be something special. Truth be told after all the drama and ins and outs with this guy it is not going to happen. He is using this relationship to his advantage and wants nothing more than to have his cake and eat it too, as they would say. If he really wanted to take this to the next level by now you would have seen some dramatic changes over the course of time as you got to know each other, not for the bad but for the good. Something that would affect the relationship in an positive way with reflecting actions. Fact is he or she is an hold up and it's time to move on if you want to find someone that really wants to be with you. Besides, this type of fling is time consuming and it's just best to let it go after sometime. You don't want the years to slap you and your looking around in the same mess you've been in. When your in a relationship it's clear that it's a 50/50 movement to be open and honest about both parties needs and wants. Fact is, if my needs are constantly being rejected and there is no compromise this is not working for me and I need to move on into a mutual happiness.  Man is he confused or do You know what You want to make you happy? I choose My happiness! Go for yours it's too many people out here striving for the same thing you want, you just have to be willing to find it.