Black Beauty Diaries

Monday, August 5, 2013

Care-LESS BEHAVIOR

I felt compelled to write this blog this morning, because I wanted to confront Care-LESS Negros who seem to have the attitude that it’s your fault they have been very slack with how they are handling themselves as men these days. It takes a real woman to know what kind of man she will or will not accept and when she comes to terms with that, there’s nothing you can do or say that will change our minds. These care-less men need to understand that once your cards have been dealt then pulled it all depends on you initially where the fuck up is going to take place. It could be a lie, and most of the time it is or other factors of your Care-Less dumb behavior. There’s no excuse or reason why you should be mad at a woman for your fuck ups. MAN UP, because there is no escape from any Lioness who knows better, naturally always aiming to have better. We use our third sense way to much to catch that ass in the “knowing”.  No bitch is excluded from this blog because bottom line THAT nigga isn't perfect, never has been. Never will be!  So bitch GET YOUR LIFE. Whatever you are lacking he is looking for in someone else, the problem is these niggas are so care-less they won’t tell you and confront you on what it is they would like to experience with you so they use their outside thinking, because they have dicks. They only see the physicality of things first. We are inside thinkers because our precious jewels reside on the inside and it takes work to get to the gold mine. Now personally if I meet you and there is no REAL connection just physical attraction, I may give you the benefit of the doubt but in reality he may just want the same thing I want and that’s a good time. HERE’S where it gets complicated we have a good time but then you realize the cookies are really good, Fuck it! I’m just gonna LIE at all cost to keep all this to my self even if I have to sell her THE“ROMEO AND JULIET” DREAM. These kind of guys are “Care-LESS SELFIES” and Ladies you have to be very careful because they don’t wanna pay the cost to be the boss! Like, I EXPLAINED a woman knows what she wants, she knows sex is temporary and that over anything her emotions are vital if you play on them, you might get what you want for a while but it’s only because she forgot the difference between her “pussy heart” and her “true heart” You've confused her with the care-less lie and now she hopes you can be All that she dreams of. NOTE: LADIES THE OUTSIDE THINKER ONLY THINKS WITH 1 THING AND 1 THING ONLY IN MIND.


 I’ve been around long enough to know that no man is perfect but if you are going to make erratic decisions based on your dick you need to understand that some but not most woman know the difference between her “pussy heart” and her “true heart” men must understand what place it is they are trying to be placed in because if you’re lying then you are making it very difficult for us to place you in a category and piece together your intentions. First off, it takes a lot for us to decide if you’re worthy of that piece of us in all honesty. As for you Goddesses with good “cookies” he’s bound to do “ANYTHING”  carelessly just to come back for more. Sometimes, you don’t have to give up those cookies for them to lie. There are those who just lie without a conscious, those are the ones you have to be very Careful with the purpose for the lies are unclear. But sooner or later you will find yourself because really you both haven’t gained anything from the situation and it’s beginning to look like these 2 things either he’s delusional or he’s just playing the devil’s game causing unnecessary stress. A man is supposed to be there to relieve you of any heavy loads, Your HELP THERE IS NO WAY AROUND THIS! FROM A BOY TO A MAN!  A woman is always carrying, a man should not be putting more on her with his lies and deceits! It makes it very complicated because it’s so many SELFIES in this world. Every day it becomes more probable to see these watered down Care-less ones struggle with who they are and what they truly want. We either want 1 or 2 things from you true Companionship or shit, MONEY!  If you’re a broke down dude no job, car, or anything of your own and she’s spending time with you trying to figure out how she can help get you together. SHE REALLY LIKES YOU!  DON’T WASTE OUR DAMN TIME!  There’s no in between GUYS if you don’t know how to tell, which some of you are too dumb to realize with ya OUTSIDE THINKING ASSES. It’s on you not to make it difficult, BE Clear most of the time a grown woman is not confused so don’t make the situation harder than what it has to be! Yes, a woman knows how to play the game better than you men, but we don’t want to for the most part. We don’t want to have to deal with more dummies than we have to. There are of course these bitches out here in denial whom have been hurt really bad, they go delusional saying “I don’t need a man”! That’s evil and ungodly and you bitches are seriously delusional! I've come to terms that no matter how many times I've been hurt I will still give love and companionship a try, life’s too short to not find something the world so short of NOTHING LIKE A “REAL GODLY MAN”. Not perfect just pure at heart!  So I won’t be bitter, I may get hurt, I may even treat my “pussy heart” every now and then but at least I WON’T BE CARE-LESS!!!  BY THE WAY I AM TIRED OF THE TERM "DON'T SAVE THESE HOES" being used overly! NIGGA YOU CAN'T EVEN SAVE YOURSELF!!! LET ALONE SOMEONE ELSE SO ULESS YOUR NAME IS JESUS FIND SOMEBODY TO PLAY WITH!!! 


Wednesday, July 31, 2013

KEEPING FAMILIES TOGETHER WORKING THROUGH ESSA ORGANIZATION.

I KNOW IT'S BEEN A WHILE BUT I HAVE BEEN TAKING TIME OUT TO ORGANIZE A VERY HONORABLE CAUSE! PLEASE TAKE SOME TIME OUT TO READ ALL ABOUT IT!  



The Problem

It would take a day to walk in some of these mother's shoes I know, and surely I promise "they" will give those shoes back. "They" say the economy is in crisis, I see these celebrities getting divorces, winning lawsuits, and coming out with millions of dollars. "They" are constantly cutting checks to foster parents who don't even have to work a full time jobs or a job at all to secure a stable home like regular single parents (Tax Paying Americans) do who have to work 2 or 3 jobs to take care of their family.There are more children of color in the foster care system than in the general population. >That sound like modern day underground selling slaves to me starting with the kids. "They" also say African Americans are incarcerated more often than whites. >That's because they are to busy releasing their own kind off of death row, while we are secretly still being lynched and brainwashed against each other. Here's a unforgettable fact for you I found to be interesting: Maltreatment Rates- There are no statistically differences in overall maltreatment rates between African-American and Caucasian according to 3 national incidence studies. After controlling for such factors as income level, unemployment and location (urban or rural) African- American communities actually have lower rates of child maltreatment than Caucasian communities. Additionally, both public or private hospitals have been found to over report abuse and neglect upon African Americans while they under report maltreatment among Caucasian.

Plan of Action

Bring awareness to the Nancy Schaefer Movement. She was assassinated her and her husband for standing up for the parents who are genuinely trying and struggling to survive and keep their families together in these days and times. Often times these things are swept under the carpet. The system fails to comply with what we want and need as stable parents and neglects to see that their cycle will and can be broken with the right voices! These children and families don't deserve the torment they are willing to take people through for the sake of keeping their business going. Whether it be the demanding fact that they want to administer your child/children with these pharmaceutical medications because of "ADHD" diagnoses and other factors but what they don't tell you is how it causes side effects and the statistics of the children who've grown into depending on the medication or getting addicted to drugs. I'd check the elements of these medications because this medication can cause numerous nerve problems. It's wrong and not humane for the system to not give a caring mother or father a choice to not administer the medication, it is even worse than having someone tie you down and shoot you up with dope. Get voices together, find other solutions, and wave the right to have responsible parents who haven't had any conflicts emotionally to receive the financial assistance they are just giving away to foster parents, medical doctors, and hospitals just because they want to make some money. THIS IS ALSO KNOWN AS ( E.S.S.A.) WE ARE JOINING TOGETHER TO ADVOCATE ON BEHALF OF THOSE OF YOU, WHO'VE HAD TO FIGHT THE SYSTEM FOR THE SAKE OF GETTING YOUR CHILDREN BACK IN YOUR HOME, OR IN A STABLE HOME DUE TO HOMELESSNESS, NOT MAKING ENOUGH INCOME WITH 1 SINGLE JOB NOT A CAREER, AND OR STILL SUFFERING THE PAST ABUSE FROM YOUR EX-MATE BY LITERALLY “PAYING FOR IT” BE AWARE THAT THE CYCLE OF THIS SYSTEM HAS BEEN SET UP AND DESIGNED TO KEEP US DOWN, HOLD US DOWN, MISINFORM US, CATER TO THEM, ONLY TO SET US UP FOR THE SAME FAILURE AND CONTINUE THE ONGOING PROCESS BY SETTLING TO ADHERE TO THE SYSTEM’S CYCLE. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT THAT WE MOTIVATE AND EDUCATE “OURSELVES” FOR THE SAKE OF OUR CHILDREN’S FUTURE. OF COURSE, THEY AREN'T WILLING TO GIVE US “EDUCATED” INFORMATION OR PROPERLY EQUIP US TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT LEVEL….AS THEY “NEED” US TO KEEP THEIR BUSINESS GOING!

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