Black Beauty Diaries

Monday, December 27, 2010

Motivation For A Better Cultivation

Now I won't go into a whole scene of explanation for this title. Those of you who are deep thinking individuals who are living in reality with this world of things that are going on all around us will understand. Sometimes it's a couple of simple words that will help us move throughout life in a positive way without judging or hinting at another person's imperfections....After all we all came into this world the same way and leaving it behind just as well. The goal is to leave with an effect on someone so powerful that it will begin to change the outlook on life as a series of GROWTH which disciplines you to know the difference between arrogance and ignorance to our own way of life. Either way you will miss the point of it all if you don't begin to accept the bullshit you've done or the bullshit you've put up with. It is time to forgive yourself and others and move on bringing yourself to Motivation For A Better Cultivation. I'm going to break down the word CULTIVATION-culture; refinement
 -The act or ART of cultivating. Now I will break down REFINEMENT- an improved, higher, or extreme form of something: the refinement of the old system. Watch this: ~>fineness or elegance of  (I absolutely love that word elegance) feeling, taste, manners, language,etc. -Subtle point or distinction. Now I don't know about you but I strive to be all of these things sounds beautiful to me, what would I do without them? They have to have a meaning to progress on to the next level of the good life. I know it's hard to find in people like this. If we study to be more cultivated with a passionate meaning to change the judgmental stereotypes that have been placed upon our own people we can grow in a positive way teaching and learning the wise way humbly. On to my next word which is MOTIVATION-the state or condition of being motivated, inducement-attraction,lure. We need to give our people ENCOURAGEMENT~> praise, support, boost, lift, endorsement, this life isn't easy so why are we tearing one another down and allowing others to do so as well.... Did God really put us here for that? or are you really still trying to do his job? he said encourage one another. What is your DISPOSITION? (natural mental and emotional outlook or mood) Is it your INCLINATION (a tendency toward a certain condition, action) to doubt or put others down because you have issues you can't deal with? Do you use your own PROVOCATION (something that incites, instigates, angers, or irritates) to fill that void trying to consume others with your unhappiness or useless self worth. If that's you I ask that this PERSUASION (convinced, a form or system of belief) be that you love yourself enough to love your own people rich, poor,wild, calm, fun, boring,drunk, sober, dramatic, humorous,lively, outraged, bitter, skinny, fat, hurt, happy, mad, sad, crippled, spooky, silly, exciting, fierce,lazy,elegant,gloomy, harsh,  black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Indian, any and all ethnicity that is, are you grown enough to handle Motivation For A Better Cultivation in today's society? I know I am God told me he never puts too much on my shoulders I can't handle from there I extend my hand to make due with what I am given and we are given one another everyday. I like elegant so God refine me everyday so that others may see your LOVE and your Light! I cannot DO or BE without the progression of learning, as your humble servant.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Your Soul Is Cold ((Poem))

Your soul is cold.
Why? It's untold...
But sitting back thinking, my heart steadily sinking
You don't look at me the same
No one to  blame, telling me your first and last name
Such a shame, how your arms cease to hold
And silenced lies begin to unfold
You know your soul is cold
Now, I never hate, but you just can't wait
To get a piece of me
Maybe a skydive into ecstasy
Bringing out the best of me sexually
Saying your name and calling you papi
Never seeing anything that would hurt me
It's crazy how in your eyes I see
Yeah, you got a good strategy
But your Manhood has insecurities
Who's falling short to aim and please
I can't stand your ways
Your soul is cold as winter days
A man like you just gotta pay
Who told you, you were fine?
Wanna wine and dine, half way in and out part-time
Stranger, I should have known you were danger
But you inspired me
To tell it all as I see
Simple minded reading right into your curiosity

Trying to deceive my reality
You keep secrets like the wood below
We know your lies, standing up to rise
On occasions, I get you hypnotized
When I let you touch and kiss between my thighs.
But right now, I ain't feeling your high
How could I ever want you on my side?
Your soul is too cold for me to confide.
Plus you got way to much pride
You were just a wave, now bye-bye tide.

Since what you do best is lie
All of your selfish way I despise
Instead of my tears to cry 
I tend to stay fly, because deep down inside
You don't know why your soul is cold, and the love has died.
Saying I complain and bitch all the time.
When it's you that's always on my mind.
I can tell that it's hard for you to understand
What completes you is being a dog ass man.
When getting what's between my legs, makes you my biggest fan.
I could be simple, yet weak

No taste, just bland but mostly I'm deep
Taking you into my wonderland.
So tell me how your soul can be soul cold if you're a real MAN.

By: Regina N. Ross

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Understanding Your Pussy Heart

This blog goes out to the misunderstood pussy heart and the "pussy moochers" I've dated in the past.

Yes, I am woman enough to admit that I fell victim to a lying dog ass nigga who gave two shits about the life I was trying to have with him.I don't know one woman who hasn't been scorned. And so this experience has taught me a very valuable lesson learn your pussy heart from your true heart. Men almost never know the difference when their dicks become emotionally attached to the pussy. It's like a baby, yes we know it has to drink from the bottle to survive but if you don't have milk how's that going to be satisfying?...Bottom line pussy rights are being milked all over the world. And if you don't play your role, denial will be a mother trucker!!! And so I sunk deep into this blog willing to tell you where I messed up so that you can avoid the misunderstanding. I will tell you what your pussy heart is first off. It's the thing that thrives on this guys good sex so bad that if your not careful it will leave you thinking your in control. All because he always wants it as bad as you do, but only when it's convenient for him. Everything inside of you will be telling you that you're in love with this dude because he shows special attentiveness to your body, not your mind sweetie. In some ways your pussy will almost be like a man when he thinks with his dick. The only exception is that most women become emotionally attached to this bull and it could lead to a cycle of trying to be with the wrong individual.So let's dig in. Yes, he took me on dates I even met most of his business partners as well as friends. A lot of special moments to me were going out to parties together and promoting each other as we gained insight on how to network. Given the fact that we were in the same industry this made things interesting and soon became a dangerous game. I was not only attracted to his look but the fact that we both had a powerful love for music, it added a flame to the sex when in action. Making myself acquainted with this "pussy moocher" on our first date told me he had someone which was cool because he was honest. I messed up when I accepted the second date I was invited to come hang with him and his friends at a party.From day one we knew there was some type of sexual chemistry between us.Yes,ladies my pussy heart was curious as to what it was he had to offer. So I allowed him to come chill at my spot after the party and I just knew he had a taste for me on that very night. But it didn't go any further because I knew he had someone so I made him stop. After that my body was saying yes do it, while my mind and conscious said hell no; stay away! I did not listen to my intuition because a month into seeing him we had sex and it was the best I had in a long time. Now my pussy heart didn't tell me in the heat of passion that he was a basic nigga cheating and doing a damn good job at pleasing me. With all the attention I was getting it didn't dawn on me that he was a "pussy moocher" until after 2 years down the road. Things got confusing because at one point he was single again and I began to want more from him I wanted to be his lady. He took his time leading me on into hopes of what may come out of this whole situation saying be patient with him. I took matters into my own hands by starting to explore my options right in front of his face at times just to see if I would get some jealous feedback. It worked too, because it showed me that he didn't want another dude messing with one of his favorite addictions and that right there was his weakness. Let me tell you about "pussy moochers" they don't want to share your pussy with no other nigga even though your not together. They want to put their name on but not really take responsibility for a title. Pussy moochers make you think there's a possibility of taking it further with no ambition into taking action to step it up. Usually when you bring up the stupid and confusing shit they try to keep you calm and close so they can avoid telling you what's really good, considering it's your pussy he wants to keep drama down. Trust, the other chick given his ass the 5th degree too. "Pussy moochers" are not responsive to your feelings only your body. They also do the same shit on a different day without thinking about consequences of  their own emotional growth. Struggling with truth and reality it's not your fault because for whatever reason reality is they have a problem with commitment. These moochers are afraid to man up, scared to lose out on a woman a real man can handle with all honesty and respect. And so it is best to keep you wondering what this could lead to nothing more than an unknown dark tunnel with a dead end. Remember curiosity killed the cat, don't kill that cat girls life is too short to be confused with a selfish man who only considers his own "dick" feelings. I am not bitter by this past situation at all we all live and learn through past experiences while dealing with different individuals. If you love yourself enough you'll recognize whether or not you  have yourself a pussy moocher who "isn't" ready to commit. He knew my goals enticing me even more by trying to help me attain them fronting like a empty box of cereal. Don't let the pussy moocher get comfortable in his routine mess him up by moving on to the best stable relationship you know God has in store for you. God is not the author of confusion let a MAN be clear about what he expects from a woman, human beings get more respect for that.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

I Need My Prince Charming

I need my prince charming, to be such a darling. He can cook, he can clean, and wear a mean pair of  Hudson jeans. He respects the fact that I'm a mother first. Because without his loving kindness, it would just be a curse.
Skydiving into my world with an unexpected landing. Where every moment with him is never saddening. His father was a King who taught him how to love a Queen. As he lifted me up I never knew how to spread my wings. His name was burned into my soul, which brings me to the boiling point of love. Even with ice all around us it never goes cold. My dear sweet prince charming  looking at you is so alarming. Just the simple touch of your hand is in very high demand. Sweeping me off my feet I just imagine us kissing  like the best kept secret. Your pose and business structure I do admire. When I look into your eyes I see desire burning like a forest fire. You give me every reason to be sexy, given the fact that I love when you tease me.  Like ice cream and cake, I will be your sweetness to taste. Prince Charming I NEED you we got madd love to make!!!

Monday, May 31, 2010

Man Is He Confused?...

Well, for many of us women we go through a phase with a man whom you've been dealing with for a very long time. Two and three years and still no real commitment, and your wondering what's the hold up with this guy? You go back and forth in this type of relationship, you have fights then make up which adds the edge on giving you the illusion this could be real. And so you still have that little piece of hope that this could be something special. Truth be told after all the drama and ins and outs with this guy it is not going to happen. He is using this relationship to his advantage and wants nothing more than to have his cake and eat it too, as they would say. If he really wanted to take this to the next level by now you would have seen some dramatic changes over the course of time as you got to know each other, not for the bad but for the good. Something that would affect the relationship in an positive way with reflecting actions. Fact is he or she is an hold up and it's time to move on if you want to find someone that really wants to be with you. Besides, this type of fling is time consuming and it's just best to let it go after sometime. You don't want the years to slap you and your looking around in the same mess you've been in. When your in a relationship it's clear that it's a 50/50 movement to be open and honest about both parties needs and wants. Fact is, if my needs are constantly being rejected and there is no compromise this is not working for me and I need to move on into a mutual happiness.  Man is he confused or do You know what You want to make you happy? I choose My happiness! Go for yours it's too many people out here striving for the same thing you want, you just have to be willing to find it.

Friday, April 30, 2010

The Best I Ever Had.

This particular blog is just a little insight on some turn ons. Probably one of the best intimate experiences I had was some time ago. The sneaky boat adventure that had my adrenaline rushing from the time we creeped on board for a spontaneous moment until the time he started kissing my neck in all the right places, leaving me to forget the fear that I had.  I wasn't even thinking about doing such a thing. The boat was covered under a storage area so it got really hot and steamy in there and trust me with all the seat space we made it very comfortable to do some amazing things to each other. That was very memorable "the best I ever had" experience my dear friends.  Trust me I didn't give him the idea, but it was a mutual agreement to try it out funny thing is the boat belonged to my aunt and we did almost get caught. A lot of times it's good to keep each other on the expect the unexpected course, it keeps the relationship interesting. It's easier to be in touch with your sexualality that way it allows you both to know your turn-ons and turn-offs. Attention to foreplay to me is very important, some people may not care so much about the caressing and admiration of his lips against yours but I love it! I have come to terms with myself that spoiling me in bed  gives the perfect ending to a climax because my partner put his work in by arousing me and taking me to the next level. You may get a bit frustrated if you lie to yourself and even your partner if you can't come to terms with opening up to what it is exactly you need to get the satisfaction you both want intimately. Let him to allow him self to get knee down caressing  your legs and thighs  with total admiration he has a sexy woman standing in front of him he can gaze into your eyes from there.He is closest to your love pyramid, but he can still allow himself to work his way up to your every being, in this case ladies it's okay to keep the heels on. Using your legs against his broad shoulders should be a flirt area for those nice lower limbs and sexy stilettos.If he picks you up to show you what those arms are made for, go in on Mr. GoodBar because his candy coated kisses should put you both in the mood. So allow yourself to open up with desires to your partner's sexuality in a safe, healthy, and  fun way it's the key to enjoying each other.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Serenity Sundays

Today I had reflections on what it means to endure past, present, and future endeavors.For everything that we go through these elements should be used as a testimony to others. It is not the material things that we gain from this world that makes us who we are, it is the wisdom and knowledge we gain from God in life that makes us valuable.I asked myself a question, would God be more pleased with my material possessions I've gained or the soul and spirit of my whole being? It's a silly question, because we all should know the answer to that. But reality is that a lot of us aren't really happy until we get everything that word "possessions" means. That's a strong word and if your not careful you won't even know how "possessed" you are about those wants until God shows up and opens your eyes to what's really important. When I am called by God I know that his questions will not be about the materials things I've gained throughout my life, but will be about who and what effect have I made in a Godly manner to impact someone with the spirit he has given me? I realize that this world is everything he told us it would be, some are for you and some are against you.That's when I remember that Love in Life conquers everything, this was proved when Jesus laid his life down regardless of how much people ridiculed and hated him to save our souls.His spirit alone gave us every reason to know and believe that all things through Christ are possible. SO LOVE THOSE THAT EVEN HATE BECAUSE NEGATIVE ENERGY DOESN'T ALLOW YOU TO ELEVATE. I can take that to the bank any day money can't buy what is more valuable that it's priceless to a choosen few to step into the gates of heaven and be looked upon by a God who has shown grace, mercy, love, and favor through a spiritual life experience of being someone else's spiritual blessing.

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Peace Until Next Time....

Regina Ross

Monday, April 19, 2010

The One For Me, Or Not

Going on a date for the first time to a woman is like having expectations of a prince charming who will know exactly what it is to put that smile of interest on your face.Believe it or not guys, it can be in the sweetest  and most simplest way. There are different types of men we try to avoid wasting our time with when entertaining the dating scene.The worse type of guy is the kind that will take you out to the club for the first time date they want to go to the crib afterwards. Ladies that's not a first date that's a jump-off, don't approach her like that even if you met in the club. It's up to you if that's what you really want because we're all grown but if your looking to have the ONE in your life it is impossible to get personable information on this person in such an distracting enviroment.This attitude says I'll take you out get some drinks in you but you coming home with me later...This kind of entertainment is the easy way out for him not to really get a feel of who you are. The first date should be an enviroment that compliments your style leaving you comfortable enought to express what you want in a friendship or companionship.That way it is clear to you both and your not wasting each other's time trying to figure this shit out. Talking about goals and acheivements you have been successful in sparks a conversation that you may want to compliment, it's okay to now add some flirty admiration.Because a woman or man who is about their business IS the business. Discussing family is helpful because it determines the morals that have been instilled in that person whether they have kids or not, married or not married can be very vital information on relationship possiblities.Sometimes this subject can be a little touchy but hey, be really true to what you know is going to make you happy in the future it will save you the frustration.It starts with the first date guys, reaction to the scene can be very vital of course if your not on point you will be clowned in front of the girls.So let the first date be of critical importance it's your own intergrity that will shine through whether you clicked with them or not. It's better to meet a friend than to make an enemy.  :^)   Products sold here are to support and benefit my blog space. Thanks for reading until next time on "Take Me Out Tuesdays" we will be talking about the Me Casa Su Casa the House visit date! Peace.