The One For Me, Or Not

Going on a date for the first time to a woman is like having expectations of a prince charming who will know exactly what it is to put that smile of interest on your face.Believe it or not guys, it can be in the sweetest  and most simplest way. There are different types of men we try to avoid wasting our time with when entertaining the dating scene.The worse type of guy is the kind that will take you out to the club for the first time date they want to go to the crib afterwards. Ladies that's not a first date that's a jump-off, don't approach her like that even if you met in the club. It's up to you if that's what you really want because we're all grown but if your looking to have the ONE in your life it is impossible to get personable information on this person in such an distracting enviroment.This attitude says I'll take you out get some drinks in you but you coming home with me later...This kind of entertainment is the easy way out for him not to really get a feel of who you are. The first date should be an enviroment that compliments your style leaving you comfortable enought to express what you want in a friendship or companionship.That way it is clear to you both and your not wasting each other's time trying to figure this shit out. Talking about goals and acheivements you have been successful in sparks a conversation that you may want to compliment, it's okay to now add some flirty admiration.Because a woman or man who is about their business IS the business. Discussing family is helpful because it determines the morals that have been instilled in that person whether they have kids or not, married or not married can be very vital information on relationship possiblities.Sometimes this subject can be a little touchy but hey, be really true to what you know is going to make you happy in the future it will save you the frustration.It starts with the first date guys, reaction to the scene can be very vital of course if your not on point you will be clowned in front of the girls.So let the first date be of critical importance it's your own intergrity that will shine through whether you clicked with them or not. It's better to meet a friend than to make an enemy.  :^)   Products sold here are to support and benefit my blog space. Thanks for reading until next time on "Take Me Out Tuesdays" we will be talking about the Me Casa Su Casa the House visit date! Peace.